Dracula Triumphant

Sorry Dude. But you just did your "relation" a great disservice. Because it is not hard to know who your "relation" is. Perhaps it would have been wise to keep what you knew to yourself...until the it was the right time to say these things. Your "relation" wasn't the only one who sacrficed a bit of life. Nearly everyone in the cast did.
After all it is said and done, this production was a community theatre effort, and you should know, when you're not famous, going gets tough in this industry. At least you could've acknolwedged the production's efforts against all odds. And the production got through the strength of encouraging each other through all the crap that went down. But nobody told your "relation" that your "relation" was an amateur, or anything like that. Because, trust me...there were times when your "relation" was anything but a pro. But some people have manner and sensibility to keep things inside their heads.