GRADS - "How to lose friends and offend some people" Ron Banks
Tue, 29 June 2010, 12:13 pmmillie8112 posts in thread
GRADS - "How to lose friends and offend some people" Ron Banks
Tue, 29 June 2010, 12:13 pmPride & Prejudice
Thu, 1 July 2010, 11:16 pmI would dearly love to write a few words about the review in Tuesday's West, however, as I'm in the cast, I think it would be circumspect to wait until the season has finished, so I shall, in the meantime, a couple of things:
I am aware the staff at the West debated long and hard as to whether to run Ron's review, eventually deciding to do so, as they had already printed the two page article on Edgar - a question of balance and as a freelance photo-journalist, I have the utmost respect for that decision.
Secondly, two people did indeed leave at interval on the Saturday night - we (the cast) didn't see them, however the Stage Manager made us immediately aware, although I'm not sure what the motivational point was in telling us at that time.
It’s interesting to see that the comments centred around my age and body shape are being voted down – perhaps people feel I might be offended? I’m not remotely – I am who I am and I really like the bloke (faults and all!). But what is worse, Ron Banks outrage at what he saw as cruel ridicule of a speech impediment, or the comment from the young lady assuming / taking / of the name Charlotte Dyer, who exhibits her prejudice, ridiculing the concept of a pretty young girl and an old fat bloke?
I suspect she meant no malice, she’s just too young and inexperienced in life to understand the subtext of what she was writing / saying, which is why it is so often absurd to have young people playing mature roles, although they may have the craft, they don’t have the experience of life to flesh-out a mature role.
I really believe all of us can learn from criticism and not let pride get in the way, but prejudice defines us and gets in the way.
All Good Things
Greg Ross
Minister for Good Times